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'''Deprogramming''' was a term coined by [[Ted Patrick]] in [[1971]] to describe his work in helping parents "rescue" their children from destructive [[cult|cults]].   
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'''Deprogramming''' was a term coined by [[Ted Patrick]] in [[1971]] to describe his work in helping parents "rescue" their children from destructive [[cult|cults]] and is a harsh form of [[exit counseling]] that arose as a reaction to the cults spawned by the [[1960s]].   
  
Margaret Singer defined depgramming as "providing members with information about the cult and showing them how their own decision-making power had been taken away from them" (Margaret Singer, <u>Cults in Our Midst</u>,San Francisco: Jossey Bass Publishers, 1995).
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Margaret Singer defined deprogramming as "providing members with information about the cult and showing them how their own decision-making power had been taken away from them" (Margaret Singer, <u>Cults in Our Midst</u>,San Francisco: Jossey Bass Publishers, 1995).
  
In most cases, deprogramming involved the literal abduction or kidnapping of members to deprogram them.  Although there were a few cases in which parents obtained temporary conservatorship orders to deprogram their children, in general most deporgrammings involved criminal acts of abduction and imprisonment.  Ted Patrick reasoned that the law did not recognize the psychologically destructive power of the cults and until it changed, deprogrammers had to sometimes break the law to "rescue" cult members:
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In most cases, deprogramming involved the literal abduction or kidnapping of members to deprogram them.  Although there were a few cases in which parents obtained temporary conservatorship orders to deprogram their adult children, in general most deprogramming involved criminal acts of abduction and false imprisonment.  Ted Patrick reasoned that the law did not recognize the psychologically destructive power of the cults and until it changed, deprogrammers had to sometimes break the law to "rescue" cult members:
  
 
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But the laws, and the politicians who administer and interpret them, were protecting [[David Berg]], and the parents' hands were tied. It seemed wrong to me. I thought something had to be done. And, everything considered, nobody seemed better pre­pared to do it than me...  
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But the laws, and the politicians who administer and interpret them, were protecting [[David Berg]], and the parents' hands were tied. It seemed wrong to me. I thought something had to be done. And, everything considered, nobody seemed better prepared to do it than me...  
  
 
Addressing a meeting of [[FREECOG|FreeCOG]] at my house in August, 1971, I told the assembled parents, "We have to be willing to do whatever is necessary to rescue your children. The cult operates illegally under legal sanctions. We have to do the same thing. There's no other way to fight them. Hopefully, in the long run, as a result of what we're doing, the laws will be changed. Until then, we do what we have to do."
 
Addressing a meeting of [[FREECOG|FreeCOG]] at my house in August, 1971, I told the assembled parents, "We have to be willing to do whatever is necessary to rescue your children. The cult operates illegally under legal sanctions. We have to do the same thing. There's no other way to fight them. Hopefully, in the long run, as a result of what we're doing, the laws will be changed. Until then, we do what we have to do."
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However, although some courts were indeed reluctant to prosecute parents or depogrammers, other courts were not and depprgrammers began to encounter many legal problems including civil suits and criminal charges. In 1980, Patrick was convicted of kidnapping and sentenced to 5 years probation and a $5,000 fine.[http://bernie.cncfamily.com/acm/Hostetter.htm] Jason Scott, a former cult member deprogrammed by Rick Ross sued Ross, 3 others and the [[Cult Awareness Network]] and in 1995 was awarded $5 million by a jury. Scott later settled his claim against Ross for $5000 and 200 hours of professional consultation with Ross [http://www.rickross.com/reference/deprogramming/deprogramming26.html] However, the suit (and more than 50 other lawsuits, many of them frivolous claims which resulted in sanctions, against CAN by Scientology and its supporters) bankrupted the Cult Awareness Network and a Church of Scientology member purchased the organization, its name and all its assets in a bankruptcy auction.
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However, although some courts were indeed reluctant to prosecute parents or deprogrammers, other courts were not and deprogrammers began to encounter many legal problems including civil suits and criminal charges. In 1980, Patrick was convicted of kidnapping and sentenced to 5 years probation and a $5,000 fine.[http://bernie.cncfamily.com/acm/Hostetter.htm] Jason Scott, a former cult member deprogrammed by Rick Ross sued Ross, 3 others and the [[Cult Awareness Network]] and in 1995 was awarded $5 million by a jury. Scott later settled his claim against Ross for $5000 and 200 hours of professional consultation with Ross [http://www.rickross.com/reference/deprogramming/deprogramming26.html] However, the suit (and more than 50 other lawsuits, many of them frivolous claims which resulted in sanctions, against CAN by Scientology and its supporters) bankrupted the Cult Awareness Network and a Church of Scientology member purchased the organization, its name and all its assets in a bankruptcy auction.
  
In the [[1980s]], deprogrammers began to use the term "exit counseling" and began to call themselves "exit counselors."  In part it was an attempt to move away from the controversey and negative connotations of the deprogramming but was also used non-coercive or less coercive techniques.
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In the [[1980s]], deprogrammers began to use the term "exit counseling" and describe themselves as "exit counselors."  In part this was an attempt to move away from the controversy and negative connotations of deprogramming, but exit counseling has also adopted non-coercive or less coercive techniques.
  
The Watchman Fellowship exit counseling as:
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==Deprogramming Photos==
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== Deprogramming Photos ==
The following four photgraphs and their captions, are from Patrick's book, <u>Let Our Children Go!</u> and illustrate a typical deprogramming.  They show the deprgramming of former Children of God Member Marc Manecke.
 
  
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The following four photographs and their captions are from Patrick's book, <u>Let Our Children Go!</u>. They show the deprogramming of former Children of God Member Marc Manecke.
  
[[Image:deprogramming1.jpg|thumb|350px|left|"Above at, midnight, outside the Children of God headquarters in Boston, Walter Manecke suddenly grabs his son Marc and shoves him into a car.  At left is Patrick's aide.  Visible in the front seat is Marc's mother; Patrick is in the back, yanking Marck inside the car."]]
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[[Image:deprogramming2.jpg|thumb|350px|left|"The next day, Marc is rushed to the Maneckes' home in Conneticut.  The Children of God had tried to get the Boston police to stop the car at a tollbooth the night before, but the police were sympathetic to Patrick and refused. During the start of the deprogramming, Marc escaped out a window, but the local police were sympathetic too and returned him."]]
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Image:deprogramming1.jpg|''"Above at, midnight, outside the Children of God headquarters in Boston, Walter Manecke suddenly grabs his son Marc and shoves him into a car.  At left is Patrick's aide.  Visible in the front seat is Marc's mother; Patrick is in the back, yanking Marc inside the car."''
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Image:deprogramming2.jpg|''"The next day, Marc is rushed to the Maneckes' home in Connecticut.  The Children of God had tried to get the Boston police to stop the car at a tollbooth the night before, but the police were sympathetic to Patrick and refused. During the start of the deprogramming, Marc escaped out a window, but the local police were sympathetic too and returned him."''
[[Image:deprogramming3.jpg|thumb|350px|left|"Marc and Ted Patrick square off as the deprgrammig gets underway. Marc fights hard and at one point he cries: "If you don't let me go back, I'm going to kill myself."  But Patrick persists, refuting Marc's arguments, helping to see he has been exploited by the Children of God and duped into behavior he could not be blamed for."]]
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Image:deprogramming3.jpg|''"Marc and Ted Patrick square off as the deprogramming gets underway. Marc fights hard and at one point he cries: "If you don't let me go back, I'm going to kill myself."  But Patrick persists, refuting Marc's arguments, helping to see he has been exploited by the Children of God and duped into behavior he could not be blamed for."''
[[Image:deprogramming4.jpg|thumb|350px|left|"After three and a half days, March breaks down and is deprogrammed. Patrick leans back and smiles as Marc's mother embraces the boy.  "Welcome home, baby," she says.  And Marc replies: "I'm sorry for all the trouble I caused you, Mom.  Please forgive me.  But it was almost a year before the last traces of the brainwashing disappeared."]]
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Image:deprogramming4.jpg|''"After three and a half days, Marc breaks down and is deprogrammed. Patrick leans back and smiles as Marc's mother embraces the boy.  "Welcome home, baby," she says.  And Marc replies: "I'm sorry for all the trouble I caused you, Mom.  Please forgive me.  But it was almost a year before the last traces of the brainwashing disappeared.''
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==Related Family Publications==
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*[[Image:Icon pdf.gif|PDF Icon]][https://media.xfamily.org/docs/fam/misc/kidnapped-by-cephas.pdf Kidnapped! This Could Happen to You! -A True Story By Cephas] &mdash; [[GP]], 1974-12-10
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*[[Image:Icon pdf.gif|PDF Icon]][https://media.xfamily.org/docs/fam/misc/newexorcists.pdf Special - War on the Sects! The New Exorcists!] &mdash; 1977-06-01
  
 
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*[http://www.freeminds.org/psych/deprog.htm Bethel Ministries Newsletter - Deprogramming and Exit-Counseling: Are They for Christians?] &mdash; 1990-01 &ndash; by Randall Watters
 
*[http://www.freeminds.org/psych/deprog.htm Bethel Ministries Newsletter - Deprogramming and Exit-Counseling: Are They for Christians?] &mdash; 1990-01 &ndash; by Randall Watters
 
*[http://www.iclnet.org/pub/resources/text/cri/cri-jrnl/web/crj0126a.html Christian Research Institute Journal: Ethical Problems in Exit Counseling] &mdash; Winter 1992 &ndash; by William M. Alnor and Ronald Enroth
 
*[http://www.iclnet.org/pub/resources/text/cri/cri-jrnl/web/crj0126a.html Christian Research Institute Journal: Ethical Problems in Exit Counseling] &mdash; Winter 1992 &ndash; by William M. Alnor and Ronald Enroth
*[http://www.rickross.com/deprogramming.html Rick Ross: Cult Deprogramming]] &mdash; A collection of newspaper article, court records and other information relating to deprogramming.  
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*[http://www.rickross.com/deprogramming.html Rick Ross: Cult Deprogramming] &mdash; A collection of newspaper articles, court records and other information relating to deprogramming.  
*[http://www.rickross.com/ethics.html Rick Ross: Ethical Standards] &mdash; 1999-01 &ndash; Rick Ross explores ethical issues in depogramming and exit counseling.
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*[http://www.rickross.com/ethics.html Rick Ross: Ethical Standards] &mdash; 1999-01 &ndash; Rick Ross explores ethical issues in deprogramming and exit counseling.
  
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Deprogramming was a term coined by Ted Patrick in 1971 to describe his work in helping parents "rescue" their children from destructive cults and is a harsh form of exit counseling that arose as a reaction to the cults spawned by the 1960s.

Margaret Singer defined deprogramming as "providing members with information about the cult and showing them how their own decision-making power had been taken away from them" (Margaret Singer, Cults in Our Midst,San Francisco: Jossey Bass Publishers, 1995).

In most cases, deprogramming involved the literal abduction or kidnapping of members to deprogram them. Although there were a few cases in which parents obtained temporary conservatorship orders to deprogram their adult children, in general most deprogramming involved criminal acts of abduction and false imprisonment. Ted Patrick reasoned that the law did not recognize the psychologically destructive power of the cults and until it changed, deprogrammers had to sometimes break the law to "rescue" cult members:

But the laws, and the politicians who administer and interpret them, were protecting David Berg, and the parents' hands were tied. It seemed wrong to me. I thought something had to be done. And, everything considered, nobody seemed better prepared to do it than me...

Addressing a meeting of FreeCOG at my house in August, 1971, I told the assembled parents, "We have to be willing to do whatever is necessary to rescue your children. The cult operates illegally under legal sanctions. We have to do the same thing. There's no other way to fight them. Hopefully, in the long run, as a result of what we're doing, the laws will be changed. Until then, we do what we have to do."

Source: Ted Patrick and Tom Dulack, Let Our Children Go!, (New York: E. P, Dutton Company, 1976).

Patrick also reasoned that courts would be reluctant to prosecute parents for kidnapping:

From my research into the subject I was reasonably well as­sured that a parent would not be prosecuted for kidnapping his own child, especially if the child was a minor. With that in mind, I began to formulate the basis of my approach to seizing the children and deprogramming them. The first rule was al­ways to have at least one of the parents present when we went to snatch somebody. The parents would have to make the first physical contact; then, no matter who assisted them afterwards, it would be the parents who were responsible. And if a parent was not committing a crime by seizing his or her child, no one else could be considered an accessory to a crime. I also counted on the fact that only the abducted child could bring suit against anyone. I was confident of being able to "deprogram" the child counteract the brainwashing he'd undergone—so that once he had come out of it he would have no desire to press charges.

Source: Ted Patrick and Tom Dulack, Let Our Children Go!, (New York: E. P, Dutton Company, 1976).

However, although some courts were indeed reluctant to prosecute parents or deprogrammers, other courts were not and deprogrammers began to encounter many legal problems including civil suits and criminal charges. In 1980, Patrick was convicted of kidnapping and sentenced to 5 years probation and a $5,000 fine.[1] Jason Scott, a former cult member deprogrammed by Rick Ross sued Ross, 3 others and the Cult Awareness Network and in 1995 was awarded $5 million by a jury. Scott later settled his claim against Ross for $5000 and 200 hours of professional consultation with Ross [2] However, the suit (and more than 50 other lawsuits, many of them frivolous claims which resulted in sanctions, against CAN by Scientology and its supporters) bankrupted the Cult Awareness Network and a Church of Scientology member purchased the organization, its name and all its assets in a bankruptcy auction.

In the 1980s, deprogrammers began to use the term "exit counseling" and describe themselves as "exit counselors." In part this was an attempt to move away from the controversy and negative connotations of deprogramming, but exit counseling has also adopted non-coercive or less coercive techniques.

The Watchman Fellowship describes exit counseling as follows:

Exit Counseling: (Thought Reform Consulting) A non-coercive technique (in contrast to deprogramming) designed to help rescue members of religions or cults that are considered false, harmful, or dangerous. The program usually involves a two to three day voluntary counseling session emphasizing education and dialogue, often with a licensed mental health professional, a former member of the group, and/or a specialist on cult dynamics. The approach stresses true personal and religious freedom in the context of providing additional information and full disclosure, which facilitates more informed decision-making. Family counseling and intervention techniques may also be incorporated.

Source: The Watchman Expositor: Index of Cults and Religions

Deprogramming Photos

The following four photographs and their captions are from Patrick's book, Let Our Children Go!. They show the deprogramming of former Children of God Member Marc Manecke.

Related Family Publications

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