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==Discontinuation==
 
==Discontinuation==
In a trend seen througout the globe, the advent of [[AIDS]] wrought changes in the perceptions of the merit of "free sex". The threat of [[Sexually Transmitted Diseases|sexually transmitted diseases]] was the anti-thesis to the gratuitous sexual lifestyle and The Family was compelled to curtail Flirty Fishing in [[1987]] and all sex with [[Systemites]] during this same period for multiple reasons.
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In a trend seen througout the globe, the advent of [[AIDS]] wrought changes in the perceptions of the merit of "free sex". The threat of [[Sexually Transmitted Diseases|sexually transmitted diseases]] was the anti-thesis to the gratuitous sexual lifestyle and The Family was compelled to curtail Flirty Fishing in 1987 and all sex with [[Systemites]] (non-members) during this same period for multiple reasons.
  
 
Coinciding with increased scrutiny of The Family's [[:Category:Sexuality|sexual practices]] the cult elected to reduce sexual contact with outsiders and reinvent their image to the outside world by shedding the "free sex" image from their [[hippie]] past in favor of a more conservative and current image, seeing the AIDS epidemic as a good time to do so.
 
Coinciding with increased scrutiny of The Family's [[:Category:Sexuality|sexual practices]] the cult elected to reduce sexual contact with outsiders and reinvent their image to the outside world by shedding the "free sex" image from their [[hippie]] past in favor of a more conservative and current image, seeing the AIDS epidemic as a good time to do so.
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==Documents==
 
==Documents==
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][https://media.xfamily.org/docs/fam/hh/hh-v4-pg377-392.pdf Bought with a price! – A How-To Manual for Escort FF'ers!] — from [[Heavenly Helpers]], Vol. 4, Part-Time Supporters! Section III: ES & FFing!, pg. 377-392.
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][https://media.xfamily.org/docs/fam/hh/hh-v4-pg377-392.pdf Bought with a price! &ndash; A How-To Manual for Escort FF'ers!] &mdash; <small>(from [[Heavenly Helpers]], Vol. 4, Part-Time Supporters! Section III: ES & FFing!, pg. 377-392)</small>
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ff-report-docs.pdf Monthly FF Report documents] &mdash; includes memo from [[Barbara Kaliher Canevaro|Barbara Canevaro]] regarding a new version of the FF Report and "FF Report Questions and Answers" article. <small>([[Family News]] Vol. 4 No. 7, pg. 7-8, 1978)</small>
 
* [http://www.xfamily.org/images/a/a9/Escort_Work_pg962.jpg Escort Work] &mdash; description of different types of prostitution Family members engaged in. <small>(FN Encyclopedia, pg. 962)</small>
 
* [http://www.xfamily.org/images/a/a9/Escort_Work_pg962.jpg Escort Work] &mdash; description of different types of prostitution Family members engaged in. <small>(FN Encyclopedia, pg. 962)</small>
 
* [[:Image:FamilyRunEscortAgencies_pg963.jpg|Family Run "Escort" Agencies]] &mdash; <small>(FN Encyclopedia, pg. 963)</small>
 
* [[:Image:FamilyRunEscortAgencies_pg963.jpg|Family Run "Escort" Agencies]] &mdash; <small>(FN Encyclopedia, pg. 963)</small>
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ff-report-docs.pdf Monthly FF Report documents] &mdash; includes memo from [[Barbara Kaliher Canevaro|Barbara Canevaro]] regarding a new version of the FF Report and "FF Report Questions and Answers" article. <small>([[Family News]] Vol. 4 No. 7, pg. 7-8, 1978)</small>
 
 
* [[:Image:Ff-witnessing-report-late1970s.jpg|Monthly FF Witnessing Report]] &mdash; form for Family prostitutes to record information on their clients. <small>(from Monthly FF Report documents)</small>
 
* [[:Image:Ff-witnessing-report-late1970s.jpg|Monthly FF Witnessing Report]] &mdash; form for Family prostitutes to record information on their clients. <small>(from Monthly FF Report documents)</small>
 
* [[:Image:FFers_Stats_pg77.jpg|Alternative FFers' report form]] &mdash; <small>(FN Encyclopedia)</small>
 
* [[:Image:FFers_Stats_pg77.jpg|Alternative FFers' report form]] &mdash; <small>(FN Encyclopedia)</small>
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Below is an incomplete list of [[Mo Letters]] dealing with Flirty Fishing.
 
Below is an incomplete list of [[Mo Letters]] dealing with Flirty Fishing.
  
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* [[True Komix - The Love of God]]&mdash; volume of illustrated Mo Letters about Flirty Fishing and sex
 
* [[King Arthur's Nights!|King Arthur's Nights series]]
 
* [[King Arthur's Nights!|King Arthur's Nights series]]
 
* [[You Are The Love of God!]] &mdash; <small>(DO 699, 1978-06-05)</small>
 
* [[You Are The Love of God!]] &mdash; <small>(DO 699, 1978-06-05)</small>
 
* [[Does FFing Pay?]] &mdash; <small>(DO 652, 1977-09-06)</small>
 
* [[Does FFing Pay?]] &mdash; <small>(DO 652, 1977-09-06)</small>
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/2/26/Ml-560.pdf God's Whores?] &mdash; <small>(DO 560, 1976-04-26)</small>
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/2/26/Ml-560.pdf God's Whores?] &mdash; <small>(DO 560, 1976-04-26)</small>
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/5/54/Ml-537.pdf God's Love Slave!] &mdash; <small>(DO 537, 1974-04-21)</small>
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/5/54/Ml-537.pdf God's Love Slave!] &mdash; <small>(DO 537, 1974-04-21)</small>
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ml-532.pdf The Adventures of a Flirty-Fish! &ndash; Another "All Things" Sharing!] &mdash; <small>(LTO 532, 1974-03-31)</small>
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ml-532.pdf The Adventures of a Flirty-Fish! &ndash; Another "All Things" Sharing!] &mdash; <small>(LTO 532, 1974-03-31)</small>
* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/4/40/Ml-525.pdf The One That Got Away!&ndash;Part II: Jesus and Sex!] &mdash; <small>(LTO 525, 1974-03-11)</small>
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* [[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF icon]][http://www.xfamily.org/images/4/40/Ml-525.pdf The One That Got Away!&ndash;Part II: Jesus and Sex!] &mdash; <small>(LTO 525, 1974-03-11)</small>
  
 
====Mo Letter covers====
 
====Mo Letter covers====
[[Image:Does_FFing_Pay-pg00.jpg|thumb|left|110px|''[[Does FFing Pay?]]'' <small>(DO652)</small>]]
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[[Image:Ml559-cover.jpg|thumb|left|120px|''The FFer's Handbook!'' <small>(DO559)</small>]]
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Image:Does_FFing_Pay-pg00.jpg|''[[Does FFing Pay?]]'' <small>(DO652)</small>
[[Image:Little Flirty Fishy-TK-01.jpg|thumb|left|110px|''[[True Komix - Little Flirty Fishy|The Little Flirty Fishy!]]'' <small>(DO TK293)</small>]]
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Image:Ml559-cover.jpg|''The FFer's Handbook!'' <small>(DO559)</small>
[[Image:Ml699-cover.jpg|thumb|left|110px|''[[You Are The Love of God!]]'' <small>(DO699)</small>]]
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Image:Little Flirty Fishy-TK-01.jpg|''[[True Komix - Little Flirty Fishy|The Little Flirty Fishy!]]'' <small>(DO TK293)</small>
[[Image:Ml576-cover.jpg|thumb|left|110px|''The FF Explosion!'' <small>(DO576)</small>]]
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Image:Ml699-cover.jpg|''[[You Are The Love of God!]]'' <small>(DO699)</small>
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Image:Ml576-cover.jpg|''The FF Explosion!'' <small>(DO576)</small>
[[Image:KingArthursNights1-cover.jpg|thumb|left|120px|''[[King Arthur's Nights!]]'' chapter 1]]
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Image:KingArthursNights1-cover.jpg|''[[King Arthur's Nights!]]'' chapter 1
[[Image:KingArthursNights7-cover.jpg|thumb|left|120px|''King Arthur's Nights!'' chapter 7]]
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Image:KingArthursNights7-cover.jpg|''King Arthur's Nights!'' chapter 7
[[Image:KingArthursNights8-cover.jpg|thumb|left|145px|''King Arthur's Nights!'' chapter 8]]
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Image:KingArthursNights8-cover.jpg|''King Arthur's Nights!'' chapter 8
[[Image:Gods Whores-ML560.jpg|thumb|left|150px|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/2/26/Ml-560.pdf God's Whores?]'' <small>(DO560)</small>]]
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Image:Gods Whores-ML560.jpg|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/2/26/Ml-560.pdf God's Whores?]'' <small>(DO560)</small>
[[Image:Ml537-cover.jpg|thumb|left|145px|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/5/54/Ml-537.pdf God's Love Slave!]'' <small>(DO537)</small>]]
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Image:Ml537-cover.jpg|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/5/54/Ml-537.pdf God's Love Slave!]'' <small>(DO537)</small>
[[Image:Ml532-cover.jpg|thumb|left|145px|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ml-532.pdf The Adventures of a Flirty-Fish!]'' <small>(LTO532)</small>]]
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Image:Ml532-cover.jpg|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/0/06/Ml-532.pdf The Adventures of a Flirty-Fish!]'' <small>(LTO532)</small>
[[Image:Ml525-cover.jpg|thumb|left|110px|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/4/40/Ml-525.pdf &hellip;Jesus and Sex!]'' <small>(LTO525)</small>]]
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Image:Ml525-cover.jpg|[[Image:Icon_pdf.gif|PDF]]''[http://www.xfamily.org/images/4/40/Ml-525.pdf &hellip;Jesus and Sex!]'' <small>(LTO525)</small>
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</gallery>
  
 
==Journalistic and popular publications==
 
==Journalistic and popular publications==
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*[http://www.exfamily.org/art/exmem/ffing_ed.shtml Prostitution and Political Seduction] &mdash; By [[Edward Priebe]] (2002-03)
 
*[http://www.exfamily.org/art/exmem/ffing_ed.shtml Prostitution and Political Seduction] &mdash; By [[Edward Priebe]] (2002-03)
  
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Flirty Fishing – "Hooker for Jesus!" – Drawing from Family publication

Flirty Fishing

Flirty Fishing (FFing) was a form of religious prostitution practiced by the Children of God/The Family cult from 1974 until it was officially discontinued in 1987 (due, in part, to the AIDS scare). Its etymology can be traced to Matthew 4:19 where Jesus says "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men."

Flirty Fishing was a subset of The Family's love bombing activities and involved the use of sexual attraction and intercourse to win converts and favors. Female members were told to be "God's whores" and "hookers for Jesus", and soon after its launch as a method of witnessing, sex was given to complete strangers in combination with a request for a "donation", or for a required fee in line with Escort Servicing (ESing) or freelance ESing. FFing and prostitution was widely used as a way to raise money for the cult and resulted in many of the second generation births (known as "Jesus Babies"). Internal Family records from 1988 indicate that over 223,000 "fish" were loved sexually between 1978 and 1988.

The Family describes the practice of Flirty Fishing as follows:

In the latter part of the '70s and early '80s, [David Berg], responding in part to the sexual liberality of that time period, presented the possibility of trying out a more personal and intimate form of witnessing which became known as 'Flirty Fishing' or 'FFing'. In his Letters at that time, he offered the challenging proposal that since 'God is Love' (1 John 4:8), and His Son, Jesus, is the physical manifestation and embodiment of God's Love for humanity, then we as Christian recipients of that Love are in turn responsible to be living samples to others of God's great all-encompassing Love. Taking the Apostle Paul's writings literally, that saved Christians are 'dead to the Law [of Moses]' (Romans 7:4), through faith in Jesus, [Berg] arrived at the rather shocking conclusion that Christians were therefore free through God's grace to go to great lengths to show the Love of God to others, even as far as meeting their sexual needs.

In The Family's internal FF Report Questions & Answers! (PDF), the following description is given:

Q: "What is FF'ing?" Many of you asked for a definition and what should be reported as actual FF'ing.
A: We would like to answer that FF'ing is going out witnessing the love of Jesus with the serious intent to use sex or sex appeal as the bait, regardless of the situation or place. This can be anywhere!–On the street, in a park, while going to the local store, in discotheques or in clubs!

Q: Does "Loved Sexually" also include kissing and light petting?
A: We suggest you only include masturbation, sucking and actual intercourse in the figures of fish, mate, brother or sister loved sexually. It's all, or nothing at all! Hallelujah!

In 1995, after extensive research of Family publications and receiving testimony from numerous witnesses, the Right Hon. Lord Justice Sir Alan Ward stated the following about FFing in his judgment of a child-custody trial involving the Family in England:

I am quite satisfied that most of the women who engaged in this activity and the subsequent refinement of ESing, (which was finding men through escort agencies), did so in the belief that they were spreading God's word. But I am also totally satisfied that that was not Berg's only purpose. He and his organization had another and more sordid reason. They were procuring women to become common prostitutes. They were knowingly living in part on the earnings of prostitution. That was criminal activity. Their attempts to deny this must be dismissed as cant and hypocrisy. To deny that the girls were acting as prostitutes because "we are not charging but we expect people to show their thanks and their appreciation and they ought to give more for love than if we charged them" is an unacceptable form of special pleading. The "FFers handbook" told the girls that fishing could be fun but fun did not pay the bills. "You've got to catch a few to make the fun pay for itself. So don't do it for nothing."

Discontinuation

In a trend seen througout the globe, the advent of AIDS wrought changes in the perceptions of the merit of "free sex". The threat of sexually transmitted diseases was the anti-thesis to the gratuitous sexual lifestyle and The Family was compelled to curtail Flirty Fishing in 1987 and all sex with Systemites (non-members) during this same period for multiple reasons.

Coinciding with increased scrutiny of The Family's sexual practices the cult elected to reduce sexual contact with outsiders and reinvent their image to the outside world by shedding the "free sex" image from their hippie past in favor of a more conservative and current image, seeing the AIDS epidemic as a good time to do so.

While this marked a historic juncture in The Family's sexual disclosure to the outside world, it reduced promiscuity within The Family only insofar as to seek to contain contagion.

The following explanation of Flirty Fishing's discontinuation is given on the official Family website:

In 1987 the Family discontinued FFing to emphasize other means of ministering the Word of God to others, as well as to take advantage of opportunities to reach more people than the very personalized ministry of FFing allowed. At that time as well, the plague of AIDS had begun its rampage through the world—another indication that it was time to reconsider Family policy of allowing sexual interaction outside our communities.

Although we no longer practice FFing, we believe the scriptural principles behind the ministry remain sound.

Flirty Fishing and the second generation

Flirty Fishing was responsible for a significant number of childbirths in The Family. Children born as a result of Flirty Fishing were called "Jesus Babies". The Family used a comic book called "Life with Grandpa - Real Fathers", among other publications, to explain some associated issues to the second generation.


Multimedia

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Documents

Mo Letters

Below is an incomplete list of Mo Letters dealing with Flirty Fishing.

Mo Letter covers

Journalistic and popular publications

Related articles and terms

External links